Relationships and sacrifice... Everyone wants relationships. And everyone knows that sacrifice is required to have relationships. But the problem is so few people want to sacrifice. Everyone wants the other person or party to sacrifice so that they get what they want without sacrificing anything. And at the end of the day that’s not a relationship, that’s just one person getting their way. Hence so many relationships remain broken or simply fail.
If your church believes in actions that resemble acts contrary to the word of GOD, repent, flee that place and find the voice of a shepherd and fellowship that will provoke you unto good works.